Guys we can’t keep calling our women “crazy” because they are sick of us being irresponsible and voice it to us. Women should never have to fuss at men to go out and get a job and keep a job to help maintain the priorities of running a household or even having a job but lack responsibilites needed to assist in running a household. Work has to be done everywhere in a relationship/marriage, not just at your 9-5 job.
We just can’t keep hopping from woman to woman because we don’t want to be responsible and help them pay the bills or when they begin to voice their concerns that are causing a strain on the relationship. Individual irrepsonsibilities don’t go away. It travels with us everywhere we go and we can not run from it. We have to fix it! Going from one woman to the next won’t fix it and many of my brothers think this is a fix for their peace.
Here’s something to consider, if we are on our 6th woman and keep hearing the same problematic issues from each one, then it isn’t the woman anymore that is the problem. It is the guy who hasn’t fixed his problem that is not honest enough to admit that he has one. Most times we do have a problem and look for sex, food, drinking, smoking and sleep as a comfort zone. This creates the “loser man” our women strongly dislike. Although we want support, it is hard to support a guy who shows no responsibility for himself at all.
There is nothing crazy about this and many of my brothers misuse this term, “Man that damn girl crazy!” when women begin to get frustrated with our irresponsibility and no drive to be better men in life. Most women are very willing to support us but most women won’t support the irresponsible part of us that has become common nowadays. We should want more out of this life for our family we help create or for the women we chose to date.
Women shouldn’t have to ask us what our goals are. We should be telling our women what our goals are! It should be about moving up and not moving around so much going nowhere or becoming stagnant. They need to see very strong potential through our actions upon meeting us and that can not fall off once we’ve been dating for a good 2 years. We HAVE to begin showing these women how much of a bright future we want too. Our lives should be escalating in a positive way as we grow in our relationships. We can not get comfortable with responsible women and let them take the whole wheel while we ride. Nobody should have to fuss at us about this when we are grown men. Our moms did that already when we were kids, the woman we sleep with should not have to repeat it.
Remember, I don’t say this to make you bitter, I say this to make you better. Make your relationship/marriage shine! Love, health, growth, wealth and happiness to all my brothers. 🙂
